Here is a guest. He (Bilvamangala) wants to embrace you and kiss you. So please decorate yourself nicely so that he may enjoy. - So the wife also followed the instruction of the husband, because wife's duty is to follow the instruction

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"here is a guest. He wants to embrace you and kiss you. So please decorate yourself nicely so that he may enjoy." So the wife also followed the instruction of the husband, because wife's duty is to follow the instruction"

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Sri Caitanya-caritamrta Lectures

Although he determined, "Now I am going to Vṛndāvana," on the way he was again attracted by another woman. So he followed that woman. That . . . that woman belonged to a respectable family. So he came, and the woman said to his . . . to her husband, "Oh, this man is following me. Please ask, 'What is the idea?' " So the husband asked, "My dear sir, you appear to be very nice gentleman, and you belong to very aristocratic family. From your appearances I understand. What do you want? Why you are following my wife?" He said: "Yes, I am following your wife because I want to embrace her." "Oh, you want to embrace? Come on. Embrace. Come on. You are welcome. Come on." So the wife also . . . She (he) ordered, "Oh, here is a guest. He wants to embrace you and kiss you. So please decorate yourself nicely so that he may enjoy." So the wife also followed the instruction of the husband, because wife's duty is to follow the instruction. And when Bilvamaṅgala came inside before the woman, he said: "My dear mother, will you kindly give your hairpin?" "Yes. Why?" "I have got some business." Then he took the hairpin and at once pierced his eyes, "Oh, this eye is my enemy." And he became blind.

661208 - Lecture CC Madhya 20.142-144 - New York

He crossed over the wall by catching one snake. Just see how much intensely he was attached. And he went to the prostitute, and she was astonished: "Well, Bilvamaṅgala"—his name was Bilvamaṅgala—"how do you dare to come here like this?" Oh, he described, "Yes. I do this, I did this, I did this, I did this, I did this." Oh, the prostitute was astonished. His name was . . . her name was Cintāmaṇi. So the prostitute said: "My dear Bilvamaṅgala, if you have got so intense love for me, oh, had it been for God, for Kṛṣṇa, how would have been, your life, sublime." Oh, that struck him: "Yes." He at once left and went away: "Yes, you are right."

Then he was (going to) Vṛndāvana. But he saw another beautiful woman, because he was practiced to that habit. So he was going behind. Although he determined, "Now I am going to Vṛndāvana," on the way he was again attracted by another woman. So he followed that woman. That . . . that woman belonged to a respectable family. So he came, and the woman said to his . . . to her husband, "Oh, this man is following me. Please ask, 'What is the idea?' "

So the husband asked, "My dear sir, you appear to be very nice gentleman, and you belong to very aristocratic family. From your appearances I understand. What do you want? Why you are following my wife?" He said: "Yes, I am following your wife because I want to embrace her." "Oh, you want to embrace? Come on. Embrace. Come on. You are welcome. Come on." So the wife also . . . She (he) ordered, "Oh, here is a guest. He wants to embrace you and kiss you. So please decorate yourself nicely so that he may enjoy."

So the wife also followed the instruction of the husband, because wife's duty is to follow the instruction. And when Bilvamaṅgala came inside before the woman, he said: "My dear mother, will you kindly give your hairpin?" "Yes. Why?" "I have got some business." Then he took the hairpin and at once pierced his eyes, "Oh, this eye is my enemy." And he became blind. He became blind. Then all of them . . . "That's all right. Now no more I shall be disturbed."