Pitā na sa syāt na mocayed yaḥ samupeta-mṛtyum (SB 5.5.18). Pitā, father, must be . . . he must be father who can deliver his son from the impending death. So one can avoid this repetition of birth and death only becoming Kṛṣṇa conscious. So any father who gives chance to his children to become Kṛṣṇa conscious, he's real father. Pitā na sa syāj jananī na sā syāt . . . na mocayed yaḥ samupeta-mṛtyum.
(break) . . . there is a verse:
- janame janame sabe pitā-mātā pāya
- kṛṣṇa-guru nāhi mile bhaja ei bhāi
- (Prema-vivarta)
In every birth one can get father and mother, but to get the spiritual master and Kṛṣṇa, that is not possible in every birth. That is only possible in this human form. The cats and dogs, they have got their father and mother. Therefore if we become father, mother like cats and dogs, there is no need of such . . . Kṛṣṇa-guru nāhi mile bhaja . . . the father helps the children to achieve Kṛṣṇa and guru, that is real father. (break) . . . they avoid that trap, they avoid association of women. But these women are not ordinary women. They are preachers. They are preachers. They are Vaiṣṇava. By their association, one becomes a Vaiṣṇava.