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<span class="link">[[Vanisource:The Nectar of Devotion -- Vrndavana, November 10, 1972|The Nectar of Devotion -- Vrndavana, November 10, 1972]]: </span><div class="text"><p style="display: inline;">
Pradyumna: (reading) "Foolishly, people who are enamored of the glimmer of modern materialistic advancement are thinking that the Kṛṣṇa consciousness movement is for less intelligent men. 'I am better off being busy with my material comforts—maintaining a nice apartment, family and sex life.' "

"These people do not know that at any moment they can be kicked out of their material situation. Due to ignorance, they do not know that real life is eternal. The temporary comforts of the body are not the goal of life, and it is due only to darkest ignorance that people become enamored of the glimmering advancement of material comforts."

"Śrīla Bhaktivinoda Ṭhākura has therefore said that the advancement of material knowledge renders a person more foolish, because it causes one to forget his real identification by its glimmer. This is doom for . . ."

Prabhupāda: Bhaktivinoda Ṭhākura, he sings, ''jaḍa-vidyā saba māyāra vaibhava''. This advancement of material education means advancement of the snares of the illusory energy of Kṛṣṇa. ''Māyāra vaibhava.'' Because we are already enamored by the glimmer of this material world. Just like the insects are attracted by the fire. They, with great force, enter into the fire without knowing that he's going to die. His forceful entrance into the fire means his sure death.

Actually, we are seeing, especially in the Western countries, this motorcar civilization, when we run on on the motorcar, especially if high speed, it is always we think that any moment danger can take place.

(aside to Śyāmasundara) You remember, you were driving your father's car, eighty miles. So I asked him, "Don't go so fast."

So the materialistic way of life is that. We create some so-called comforts of life for temporary enjoyment, but at the same time, we take the risk of so many dangerous condition.

In the ''śāstra'' it is said that this place is ''padaṁ padaṁ yad vipadām'' ([[Vanisource:SB 10.14.58|SB 10.14.58]]). In every step there is danger. Although we are trying to mitigate all kinds of discomforts, it is simply changing the burden from head to the shoulder. Just like a coolie carrying some burden, when he feels uncomfortable, he change the burden from head to the shoulder, but actually, that is not mitigating the pains of burden.

Similarly, we are trying to get material comforts by manufacturing or adventing so many scientific discoveries, but that is not actually getting happiness. It is simply changing the position. Exactly we just consider that in your country, especially, you have got many motorcars, but riding on motorcars, how much dangerous conditions you accept. Everyone accept.

So this kind of changing the course of discomfort . . . actually, it is a place for discomfort. You cannot expect real comfort within this material world. It is a place . . . because Kṛṣṇa Himself certifies this place ''duḥkhālayam aśāśvatam'' ([[Vanisource:BG 8.15 (1972)|BG 8.15]]). It is a place for miserable condition of life. Now, how you can make it a happy place? That is not possible.

So our attempt to make us happy, the example is given, just like to take the heavy burden from head to the shoulder. That's all. Changing the place. Now we are creating so many problems, you know. You have got many cars, many roads, but still, you have to construct highways or flyways, one road after another, one road after another. Still, there is congestion. Still, there is accident.

So in this way we cannot be comfortable. This is a vain endeavor. ''Durāśayā ye bahir-artha-māninaḥ''. They are unnecessarily, hopelessly trying to become happy within this material world. And people, the so-called scientist, so-called advancement of material education, means . . . now, the scientist says that they have finished their business; they have no more to discover. But the discomforts of life still is there, as it was two hundred years ago; still, I think it is more acute now than two hundred years ago. So in this way, we cannot.

The another example is that just like we dream. We dream something dangerous—a tiger is coming, a snake is coming—sometimes we want to change to another sort of dream. Those who have got practical experience . . . dreaming another dream in dream. Similarly, our attempt, so-called attempt to become comfortable in this material world, and manufacturing some ways of comforts, it is simply useless endeavor, because such kind of artificial endeavoring will not make us happy.

Real happiness is, as we are trying to manufacture so many things, as Kṛṣṇa says, real happiness is there, ''sarva-dharmān parityajya mām ekaṁ śaraṇaṁ'' ([[Vanisource:BG 18.66 (1972)|BG 18.66]]): to take shelter of the lotus feet of Kṛṣṇa. ''Samāśritā ye pada-pallava-plavaṁ mahat-padaṁ puṇya-yaśo murāreḥ'' ([[Vanisource:SB 10.14.58|SB 10.14.58]]). That is required. We have to take shelter of Mukunda, Murāri, Kṛṣṇa. Then we'll be happy.